My husband and I have two different opinions about whether or not letting our 13wk old frenchie whine while in Crate at night. Me: I think it teaches him that is where he stays at night and has to learn by whining he isn't going to get out. He whines twice a night and I'll take him outside then back in Crate. Husband: He thinks by leaving him in Crate it teaches him it's ok to whine. But also shows him we are neglecting him when he wants to cuddle. I understand what he is saying but if he wants him Crate trained at night I dont feel like that is going to help. W How do you feel?